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Old May 23, 2017, 09:04 AM
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Originally Posted by DodgersMom View Post
it's not really bothering me but the idea of talking about it in therapy is lol. i keep hearing "tell them everything" so thats why i asked. its not something i really wanna discuss, i feel like a moron for being this close to 40 and like this.
I was in a very stressful marriage for 20 years and finally got out. That was 8 years ago. My friends who have been divorced in that time period are re-married and here I sit totally uninterested in even dating. I felt like I should feel and act a certain way and worried that something was wrong with me (society's expectations again) and finally brought it up to my therapist and my best friend. I felt very awkward so I understand what you're saying. If it's not bothering you...don't bring it up.