Is anybody here in an open marriage? I've become fascinated with the concept of open marriages. If I ever do get married again (unlikely) I want it to be an open marriage. I was married for 20 years and we literally only had sex about 10 times. I'm not going through that again.

I've realized that I'm turned on by women in open marriages. Somehow it's a heady combination of domesticity and sexiness.

I think there's a sort of swinger / open-marriage underground all around me. Well... all around everywhere, really. The one person I've known who is in that scene has tacitly declined to introduce me into it. I understand that but I still want to find a way into the underground.

I’ve had no luck with Adult Friend Finder. I’m going to try some more traditional dating sites.

I’m basically a decent guy with this particularfetish (about which I'm not ashamed at all). Any advice?