I can't see the poll on my mobile but I know I have a lot of attachment issues which I confuse as love sometimes. I often get my attachment confused with erotic transference but I am learning to separate the two. In my last attachment to my last t, it was very painful because my heart longed for connection knowing all she provided was an hour a week. It was very difficult to unattach to her because I felt that she forced me to attach by building some kind of friendship but when I wanted more than our hour the boundaries were reinforced. There was a lot of enmeshments going on. T would disclose a lot about her personal life and I became her therapist. It was very confusing for me and my attachment. My attachment is normally avoidant but t forced me into a relationship by hooking me in.