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Originally Posted by junkDNA
I am going through this right now with my T. I go thru periods of not even wanting to see him recently since he changed the boundaries. I struggle with it and almost see it as unneccesary pain. However i do feel way less obsessed with him which i like because i hate being obsessed with things /people. It becomes a prison
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Yes I totally agree with you and can relate. I am sorry you are also going through it. I just wish there was a way to keep some of the good feelings (closeness, safety, etc) while losing the obsessive and painful ones. Right now I just feel numb.