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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
I'd recommend e-mailing--I've done that in the past first for difficult topics.
I find it very difficult to talk about sexual topics with MC, who is male and for whom I have some paternal transference. I find staring at the carpet while talking about it helps! It's also difficult to talk about with my female T though, so I think it's just a difficult topic in general because it's so personal.
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pretty much yes to all this, i agree about emailing, i've done it too when i had to bring up my fear of becoming attached because i just couldn't in person.
also agree that it doesn't matter the gender as much, i think i'd feel this way either way.
i hope you find a way to bring it up if its really something you need to do. best of luck to you