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she would give me her cellphone number when I asked to stay in touch, if she never had any intention of actually staying in touch with me. I was very insulted, my feelings were hurt, and decided I didn't need that kind of drama from someone, no matter what familiar ties we have.
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Ceilpur, would you have been just as hurt if she had just not given you her phone number or said up front that she didnt want to stay in contact with you? Maybe she is the kind of person that hates direct confrontation & wasnt ready to deal with what might happen if she did say NO phone #....just a thought. She might have just hoped you were being nice & in reality would never bother calling like some guys tend to do also.
Giving phone numbers is safer than an address for fear of stalking. Relationships are never easy to figure out.