Blue, I am sorry that you took offense to my reply. I am also sorry that I know nothing about Netherlands Laws. However I will do research and see the laws ans your rights. If I find a site to look at I will pass it on to you. My reason for asking the question about your brother was to try to understand why they separated you. My wish is that you can get back together. I am so sorry for what is happening. Please do what you can to stay safe. I wish I were there to help.