i have a theory... that people who hurt are sometimes drawn to others who hurt... because there's identifying factors each share and communicate about in a healthy scenario...

in an unhealthy scenario, the opposite happens.. non communication, stunted growth..

find someone like your friend, he sounds like a good guy..

neurosis is so common... we rub shoulders with each other, its gonna rub off..

find the good ones... make friends of those, be aware of what surrounds...

have lots of fun anytime you can...