While there are men out there who target women, I find myself not 100% sure if he did. Why? I am usually a very responsible drinker but on three occassions I have drank to the point that I can't remember large portions of the evening (and in one case, in the parts that I remember I was not acting like I normally do). It is theoretically possible that something could have happened earlier that could have played into this drunk guy's act.

Bubbles seemed unsure too. I think the uncertainty about the guy's motives, your own values, cultural beliefs, if it is your first time and all the rest make it hard for us to deal with our feelings when this happens. I hope she is feeling better today....