I've had several different types of orgasms...& still exploring them. Definitely more than 3 & it really all depends on.....nothing in particular....we just explore what feels right.
Sometimes it depends on the shape of the penis & whether it can actually stay in contact with the clitoris, but everyone is different....so we adapt.
I think sometimes men need to say "show me how you do this" & they get a lesson on what the woman likes plus it's sensual to watch.
Society is obsessed with this vaginal orgasm bec it's the only way sex is depicted on media such as tv, movies & porn. It's our main educational system. Women think there's something wrong with them if they don't O & men usually ask if they did...bec that's the secondary goal of typical sex.
Ummmm sex is so not like tv sex. Just look at how nice her hair is at the end!!