Oh. He is not a pleasant man and he is hurting you.
He has a pretty good life, doesn't he? The world runs according to what he wants and he gets to say and do whatever he likes whenever he wants to. He doesn't have to think about anyone else or what they want or feel and he gets what he wants when he wants it. He doesn't need to change anything about himself for anyone. If he feels like being kind he can do that. If he feels like being mean he can be as mean and as cruel as he likes. it doesn't matter. Nobody else matters. You don't matter. The children don't matter. Nobody has the right to complain about anything he does. Only he matters. How he feels matters. What he wants matters.

In HIS world you don't matter.
In the real world you matter.
Join the world.