this is good zh, and needs to be posted in the psychotherapy forum too, for many member's T's have unhealthy boundaries. (I been saying it but maybe if they read it from a different source, they'll believe it?)

In general I do know the boundaries...and when others are having a problem, I don't take it on myself. When I'm terribly depressed (as I am now) I do have trouble sorting through things.

One of the lines I like about a work boundary: Procrastination on YOUR part does not constitute an emergency on MY part!