I am always tense from stress.

I have noticed I am getting those thoughts from the past how its my fault i couldn't orgasm. i cried yesterday to my friend that i was frustrated for not being able to cum it was taking too long with the penetration of fingering.

i have came from penetration with a toy of his that hit my g spot. i have came while playing with my clit and penetration that is far and few between i can achieve that again it still takes too long for me to even orgasm. a woman can finger me no prob i can orgasm but when it comes to a man it takes me forever to orgasm.

i like vibrators but i dont want to desensitive myself i use them once in a while when i want a good vibe.