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Originally Posted by awkwardlyyours
I have asked current T to stop doing the following things (the word fake may have been used a few times) --
- Stop making sad "Aww" faces (and actually saying "Aww")
- Stop complimenting my intellect (I know exactly how smart -- or rather not -- I am)
- Stop swiveling her chair to the direction I'm looking in
- Stop telling me pointless stuff like she's there for me / cares about me blah blah
Her responses have mostly been that "It's unconscious" and she'll "try" to not be so annoying.
Unfortunately, my list only seems to grow longer after every session.
I should say that her most redeeming quality has been putting up with my obnoxiousness -- I'm not sure $125 an hour would be enough for me to do the same.
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When t and I were talking the other day and I had that realization about myself - she made some comment about "I've been going along with you" on what I'd said about h in the past. I'm not sure how I feel about that. It sorta kinda almost sounded like her saying "I was just listening to you, it's not my fault you didn't know you had a part in it." I don't know if I'm explaining that right. It just seemed like a weird thing for her to say if she suspected otherwise. Like okay miss smarty pants, why didn't you help me figure this out BEFORE NOW?!
I know I'm changing. I'm different. But it can't be all me. She's being different too I swear.