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Originally Posted by artemis-within
When t and I were talking the other day and I had that realization about myself - she made some comment about "I've been going along with you" on what I'd said about h in the past. I'm not sure how I feel about that. It sorta kinda almost sounded like her saying "I was just listening to you, it's not my fault you didn't know you had a part in it." I don't know if I'm explaining that right. It just seemed like a weird thing for her to say if she suspected otherwise. Like okay miss smarty pants, why didn't you help me figure this out BEFORE NOW?!
I know I'm changing. I'm different. But it can't be all me. She's being different too I swear.
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I think they do a lot of that, for good reason, even though it can be infuriating. Revelations about myself don't mean anything unless they come from me. It just pisses me off to have someone having them long before me and just waiting it out, even though it wouldn't have helped and could have caused harm/hurt if they said it first.