aight so apparently i have a problem...

i've only ever had 1 relationship and that was a long *** distance relationship... lasted like 4-10 years i cant even say these days because of my other mental health issues messing with my memory...

everyone tells me that i am very nice, caring, sweet, fun, interesting, very good looking, ect ect ect

which i know i am kind, caring, nice, and sweet because its what i do... i dont treat people like **** just because i dont want to be treated that way...
im honest and i try to keep it real...

i've got alot of stuff goin on upstairs i know, depression and anxiety...

but i just cant understand how someone with all of these "qualities" that everyone continues to tell me that i have remains to be single and has always been alone, so what am i doing wrong?

do i just put off a bad vibe? if so why does everyone tell me these nice things about myself?

do i just scare off girls? how?

do i just let off that i am not interested in them at all ?

usually they dont even approach me, or when i approach them they dont seem very interested, are they just intimidated? or uncomfortable?

whats my problem? geez...