Every so often it will come to my attention (in various ways) that my SO creates profiles on different dating sites or affair sites and/or answering CL ads. This had been an issue before, and we ended up separated and he apologized, and when I asked him why I wasn't enough, he stated 'it was not you, never you its me that has the problem'. So it stopped for a while but now becoming a problem again. But his reasoning this time is he says that I don't 'listen to him' so he creates these profiles as my punishment. As in, if we are discussing something and I 'backtalk', or if I do something against his 'rules', he goes online, does his thing, and waits for me to find it somehow or come across it so I'll be hurt by it and that's supposed to 'keep me in line'.
Is it just me or is this crazy??