If you want it to be because he is nice - okay - do that. I just don't think it is good to see them as doing things like appointments as niceness or not - what about when he does not have an opening - is he then being not nice? Seeing it as nice or not makes the client more vulnerable to feeling upset- not ultimately more loved - in my opinion.
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