On the divorce stuff, first, thanks everybody.

The car insurance I can't do anything about till I have a cooy of the divorce decree.

The cell phone, if I could get the carrier to inform him, not me, I would do starting next billing cycle. So maybe I'll stop by a store.

I feel like the storage unit would be best stated officially, just because of the kind of person he is, plus I imagine he could accuse me of theft if he lost that stuff, but I can probably get myself to knock the time down considerably.

The Prime...my goal for the week will be to do that.

A lot of this is, I know how he thinks and reacts, and this is like calling attention to myself and putting a target on my back. The lawyer had to talk me out of not taking him off my benefits last year. (Yes, I'm scared of him.)

The irony of all this, is when he could hold down a job he made way more money than me (MD).