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Old May 28, 2017, 02:32 PM
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I'm divorcing (still 2+ years on) my ex due to his drug use.

Recent events have made me really think about the best interest of our child and at the moment having him in her life doesn't seem beneficial for her whatsoever.

He sees her for about 6 hours for 1 day at the weekend (never overnight) and for a few hours midweek for dinner.

Never calls her

He has no interest in her education. Doesn't come to important meetings and events. Never asks me about how she's doing at school etc.

Didn't attend her birthday party (was getting a tattoo)

Has recently told me he will be homeless and thinks he's entitled to move back in with me - can you imagine how that will affect our daughter?!

Cant afford his child maintenance

Today said he doesn't want to see her over any half term school holidays at all.

All of the above just screams of someone who doesn't give a crap about their child!!!!

I'm so utterly heartbroken for her.

I will send all of this to my solicitor. But what can I do about this? Can I say to my solicitor that he doesn't have her best interests at all. Can I say I don't want him to see her anymore?

I'm sooooo stressed out and upset by it all