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Originally Posted by BlueInanna
You were 4 hours late. That's a waste of her time waiting, favor or not. I'd be pissed too. This is not a sign of bipolar. It's a sign you are unorganized and think you're above being on time somewhere. You seem to want a lot of recognition for these favors you do. Maybe you're so late because you don't really want to be doing them. Maybe you're passive aggressive that she's married when you want her. I suggest some counseling for yourself.
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she doesn't work and a stay home mom. I agree 4 hours late was bad but to get OUTRAGED, it definitely wasn't her. It seemed like it was somebody else. Usually when people get upset, they are still themselves. Yes the reason I am here on this board is to use you guys as therapy. I just came to get some answers. Had she just moaned and griped, I would have been alright that is normal. but it was just way out of line to get so much rage over 4 hours late. I did not blow her off on purpose. I had a lot of parts I still had to get and she gave me a hint the previous day that she didn't need a minute by minute update so I went the other extreme. I wished I hadn't because I got the crap beat out of me.
As far as being in love, no I would never act inappropriately in front of her and the reason I feel so bad is because she was a great client, very loyal, and for whatever reason I hurt her and I feel terrible. I am a compassionate person and if I was cold, callous, then yes I could easily say screw her, who cares what she thinks or how I hurt her. Anyway again broke my own rules and it seems a lot of you are just piling on to pile on. This is not constructive and my recommendation is, if you are going to give somebody advice, do so with kindness and don't be destructive about the way you go.