About the earlier discussion of people being happy with their lives. I am overall happier now than I have been in a long time. I am very challenged and frustrated at times with my h's hypochondria, he's at it again today, at our friends house... when it came time to do his fantasy baseball moves on the computer, he suddenly became hot and flushed and felt sick to his stomach and started moaning and groaning and acting like he was dying and went outside. So me and his buddy had to try to decipher his handwriting to get his moves put in, and I typed them in, so now I am paranoid that I did something wrong and they won't go through, and h will be mad at me. This is the one area in my life that I am really not happy with - that my h is a hypochondriac. And to prove my point: I finished the move a couple minutes ago and now he is in the other room laughing and talking like nothing ever happened. Maybe he just wanted me to do the computer work. I don't know what I am supposed to do. I just don't. I hate it so much because I feel helpless there is nothing I can do to make him feel better since it is all in his head.