I can say that overall I'm content with my life because I accepted the choices I made for myself. I can't have children- I could've chose to try and adopt but my H and I chose not to. I accepted this decision we made together and no longer feel a piece missing. I could've finished my degree to become a teacher, I chose not to do that and make a career out of being a nanny. I accepted this decision I made for myself and now enjoy it. Right before my H and I got married, I was going to leave him. I chose to stay. I accepted this decision which meant accepting all of him just as he accepts all of me.
Life isn't always a walk in park. There are many ups and downs. And sure there are always some ongoing goals. Lose weight, try to save some money, get more active, get out and find a way to meet more people, etc...
But I'm content. I didn't settle. I'm content.