I don't think there's only two choices when dealing with other people - it's not only either he's a creep or you need to be sympathetic. I think there can be a more middle ground where you simply separate yourself from the other's problems. It doesn't matter what he's doing - it matters what one's response is to what he is doing - that's the part one can control.
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Oscar Wilde
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