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Old May 28, 2017, 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by artemis-within View Post
I apologize if I mis-spoke and offended you. It was not intended. I have been living with this with my h for going on 20 years and he refuses anxiety meds or depression meds when the dr suggests, he refuses therapy, he over and over and over refuses to go to marriage counseling. it's a recurring pattern ad nauseum. i have been very patient with him but my patience is wearing thin because he refuses help. except to go to the dr to be told every time there's nothing wrong with him. he watches medical shows and convinces himself he has whatever rare disease they are talking about that day. I want to be able to help him, but nothing I do ever helps, everhthing I say is wrong, everything i try to do is wrong, every time it happens i get closer to the end of my rope.

I'm sorry everyone. It's just been a very long time dealing with this. I don't mean to make anyoen feel bad who deasl with health anxiety. I am going to take a break from PC for awhile. Maybe i should follow the others who deleted their accounts.
Art - I didn't go through the health anxiety with future ex as long as you did - just a few years. But, pm me if you like. It is extremely frustrating to live with, especially when you can see the idea "maybe that's what's wrong with me" forming in their eyes.

It didn't help I went to every appointment with him, rearranged my schedule constantly...and then when I got sick and needed hospitalization and surgery he was nowhere to be found.

(Not criticizing those with hypochondria. It did not look fun.)
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