((((((((((( dragon )))))))))))

I know you so want your wife to come running into your arms and say that all is foregiven and to come back home and start over again.

Maybe because both of your perseptions of how things are going is what is making this process seem longer than you want it to be. You can't put a time frame on when people begin to "feel" love again. As much as you would like that to happen, your wife is going to feel what she does, when she does whether your perception of the time frame is the same as hers or not.

I know I've said this to you before and I'll say it again hon.....time and patience and acceptance of her boundaries is the only way to go right now. Having acceptance of her boundaries shows her that you respect her and her feelings. That's very important don't you think?

Learning how to talk to one another is an age old difficulty. Men and women communicate differently. Trying to find a way is paramount in understanding each other so there are no questions and no wrong assumptions made by either of you. Then again, assumptions will almost always be incorrect in some way shape or form.

I'm sorry that things aren't seemingly moving in the direction you want them to go and in your time frame. I hope you can find a way to work through this.

Sending you strength and understanding to help you along the way!


sabby