Dear MC,
Nervous to see you today. But feel better about the stuff I was worried about because you responded with your usual "no worries, LT" to my text apologizing for my Sat. night text. And you thought that my insight was good.

I just suspect at least part of today's session will be spent addressing the stuff from the end of last session, about how it often feels like you think I'm the one who causes the issues and who has to change or adapt in the marriage. I hope you thought about it more like you said you would. Though I'm a little concerned you'll say you don't think you've done that at all. I just hope you maybe take a little bit of responsibility or say you understand how at times it may have come off that way, even if you didn't intend it. That you were just trying to help me, and didn't mean to act like I was the broken one, the screw-up. I don't even think I'm looking for an apology, just an acknowledgment, some validation (even though, yeah, I know, my feelings are valid simply because they're my feelings).

So, see you this afternoon (unless we have to cancel for some reason--am I ever going to stop worrying that we'll have to cancel at the last minute, whether because of something with you or with us?)
LT