Are ACE's things like my father (my brother's step dad) telling my brother that he was "not his son" and that if "he wanted to fight like a man" he'd take him out in the yard and show him what that was like? My dad raise my brother since he was 2 (so it's not like he married my mom when my brother was older), but he always said "not my son" or when talking to my mother "your son" while I was "our daughter".