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Originally Posted by Emily Fox Seaton
I feel like I might have this a little. All my life I have noticed there are certain men who flat out hate me immediately. I mean when I use that word... I mean I actually fear they could hurt me if they got the chance. I can't even imagine what I might have done and sometimes have hardly talked to them. I have wondered if I have a smell or a pheromone that sets them off. Or there could be a look to me that scares them or something. But it isn't that way with all men. I would say about 7% of men react this way to me. I have considered that maybe they are secretly attracted but, I really doubt that. I feel it has something to do with my being over weight? But I am not that overweight.
I guess I will never know.
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I doubt it is you. Those men might be that way with a lot of people.
Thinking about it further, my cousin whom married the "punch you in the face" guy also has aggressive tendencies herself and seems to associate with those kinds of people in general. Even at their wedding, her Maid of Honor stood next to me as I caught the bouquet, and she said, "I was going to push you out of the way so I could catch it, but I decided I would let you have it." Ok, you have established that you are alpha female and I am subordinate female receiving favor, because you are a generous alpha.
I guess there are just those people out there that like to fight and establish dominance and pecking orders.