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Old May 29, 2017, 04:50 PM
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Originally Posted by DodgersMom View Post
I am terrified beyond words to get close to him and know that he will leave me eventually.
Besides him moving, retiring, or dying; what if he doesn't leave you?

That's what my T is doing with me. I saw her for 15 months once a week, then 9 months every other week, and now we're at every 4 weeks. The goal is to not have consistent sessions, but to come in only when I need her. She will be my T unless she moves, retires, or dies. When something comes up, she's there for me.

We're at once every 4 weeks because technically I don't "need" her. When I first saw her, I needed her and that's why we went every week. But can you imagine at some point, not needing your T all the time, but knowing he's still there for you when you do need him?
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