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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel
Besides him moving, retiring, or dying; what if he doesn't leave you?
That's what my T is doing with me. I saw her for 15 months once a week, then 9 months every other week, and now we're at every 4 weeks. The goal is to not have consistent sessions, but to come in only when I need her. She will be my T unless she moves, retires, or dies. When something comes up, she's there for me.
We're at once every 4 weeks because technically I don't "need" her. When I first saw her, I needed her and that's why we went every week. But can you imagine at some point, not needing your T all the time, but knowing he's still there for you when you do need him?
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Interesting thought. Well, he has told me something similar ...someday I wont need/want to see him and that I struggle to believe but its been less than 2 months I've gone so far
He also has told me though that he has no plans to move in the next 10 years and anytime I need to come back, I am welcome to. One of his clients has seen him 3 yrs and he goes monthly now and sometimes every other month I guess. so in a way.... it makese sense what your saying, I just struggle to believe I wont need/want to see him someday but we will see i guess
