I doubt it is better to turn them over to your mom, because of the guilt of struggling with your own exhaustion-emotional exhaustion. You're posting here, you do care. Perfection is a pipe dream, a fallacy! I don't always check my own kids bags. I've 3 and gosh darn it, they might be great little boogers outside of my home, after having them 24/7, I'm drained! It's not all it's cracked up to be and after listening to their banter and quibbling and the newest minecraft parody, I'm wondering how there exist women that actually "enjoy" this?! Don't get me wrong, I love them, but why does getting them to sit for a haircut or take a shower got to absorb so much time?!?!

Just take it day to day. It's not just you that feels this way sometimes(or days on end).