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Old May 29, 2017, 09:48 PM
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Originally Posted by nicoleflynn View Post
I disagree with that therapist...this is called a letter of "restorative justice"--restorative justice says....this is what you did, this is how it made me feel. I believe it is empowering to speak up for ourselves. it isn't about the abuser, but about the person abused. My therapist was the one who gave me the term...restorative justice.
Thanks, Nicole. I also had a therapist who would have us write letters to our perpetrators and then burn them to "let it go." Didn't quite work for me. It's like in a court of law. At least you get to look your abuser in the face and say to the world, this happened. You did this.

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