Jacksmom,
Please understand that this being a mental health site, people here are very careful about their anonimity(sp), not to mention that giving out personal information to folks we don't know online really is not a good thing to do. It's nothing personal against you, but everyone here (including you) needs to do everything they can for self care
As far as resturants and other places to go for safety, I found tons of them right off the interstates. I would say that in our trip, 95% of our travel was on the interstates and they had plenty of rest areas or exits to go for pitstops along the way. We were never far from anything that was needed on the trip. Thank goodness for that.....my bladder isn't too good anymore
Best of luck to you and your hubby!

sabby