((((((((((((((( dec ))))))))))))))
I so understand how you are feeling. While maybe that statement is true in some situations, it most definitely is not true in all. It's not fair to be lumped in together...each person, each situation is different as night and day.
I'm really sorry you are feeling triggered. I hope I have never said or never will say anything that hurts or triggers you or anyone else here.
Warm thoughts going out to you!

sabby