well, something has impacted you... upset is a natural response to that..

sounds like they are leaving a part of the communication door open..

they just dont like the negative vibe features of talking right now..

maybe they'll pass out of it, or maybe you'll come to terms with it...

have you sat down together and discussed this issue of non-communication with them one on two?

is good to speak of good vibes and positivity.. hopefully not going too overboard..

and at least it is a switch from earlier bummer moods...

pick up on some of the terminology they use and use those words to tell them how you are feeling?

make it fun... dream of Nirvana together and incorporate your feelings into the conversations...

drink some tea and talk about peace together?

explore their ideas.. maybe some have real value?

hope this helps...