Wounded,
I think Sunrise's comments are good ones. As long as you are not in any physical danger. (He was punching walls and stuff wasn't he???) Shift your focus on ways to convert this detour into something positive. Use the time to get your paperwork in order, taking back parts of yourself that he hijack and distorted, and build yourself up. You can start by not discounting your contributions to your home and to what both of you have. I'm sure there are a lot of things that you do that enable him to work and make money. You don't need him to recognize this.. recognize it yourself .. appreciate yourself!

What type of writing do you do? Do you have any other talents that you can utilize without being mobile?