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Originally Posted by divine1966
It's heart breaking. It was important for you to write it. Great letter.
I don't know your father and if he is capable of change and understanding but my therapist told me that it's a waste of time and energy trying to explain toxic unhealthy people what they did or do wrong. They'll never see things the way they are. I gave up long time ago. Good for you for not giving up
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I agree - while the letter is extremely well-written, I fear the meaning and value of it will be lost on the person receiving it.
If you send it try not to be disappointed if you see no change in him. I wouldn't post it to Facebook because THAT will become the focus of whatever anger/upset there might be.