Hi,
I moved to the US last september in order to know/be and build something with my partner. It was really difficult to leave my home, my family and my friends. However, because of his studies and my taste for adventure, I decided to move. And I was not very interested in long distance relationship.
In September, I have to go back in Canada. My partner and I were expecting him to finish school in Spring 2018. I thought September to January wasn't bad — I would have tried to go back in the US in January until he finishes school. Also, he kind of wants to graduate before building something bigger together.
Although, we just learned that he will finish school in December 2018, including Summer 2018.
As I learned to accept the upcoming distance and time, now I am left with sadness and frustration. I feel like I have to grieve the expectations or ideas that I had and welcome the changes.
I don't know how. I don't want to sacrifice again. I don't want to wait that long to build something and be reunited.
Is anyone in the same situation? What did you do?
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