Enemy can be a poor choice of words. I don't get along with a great many people. But I have no enemies. I have had a few in the past but this was when I was a kid or a young man. I blame that on immaturity and hormones. Still nothing was life or death...and fighting etc was unimportant in the long run. I knew that even then.

I can have problems sure but I don't call these people enemies unless the %h!t flies. That doesn't happen. I can remain uncomfortable and a situation remain unresolved for a long time BUT I still cannot call these people an enemy. It's a silly word...there are better. Unless you're actually fighting hard and persistently it's a poor word. Some of you do have to fight and I understand that...but in my own experience it's no longer a word I an willing to use.