I don't think that is possible for me, at least. For some of us the very idea of integrating is really disturbing. I think trying to force such a thing would cause serious problems for us as a whole. Never have tried, but I don't think I could manage to force that on someone who does not want it. I wouldn't want to try to force someone to do that if they were not on board with it.

The best we have found to do is something we kinda fell backwards into on accident. Some of us have had these kinda aha moments where we realized we have a lot in common and almost seem to be the same person, and then we end up meshing together as we spend more and more time together. While things like that aren't forced exactly, we get this feel that we will end up becoming one before it happens, we don't know when, but we know it's inevitable... and it's not scary or disturbing to us who have those aha moments. It makes sense to us because we know we are the same person anyway and going to be a more complete me once we are one together. Really I wish more of us would just mesh up.. the ones on board with integrating, anyhow. It would make life a lot easier in a lot of ways. I say that, but then I kinda freak out when I have to live an entire day on my own... 24 hours feels like an eternity to me when I am flying solo. I have no idea how people deal with all that frickin time every frickin day... oy. I'm a big ole contradiction a lot of the times.