Open Eyes, I never said she couldn't have friends or A life. I do demand respect and boundaries though. I agree we should have went to counseling a while ago, but I never physically hung out or brought my kids around another woman. She did all this behind my back. I'm not saying what I did by texting was right, cause I was wrong. Sometimes life and priorities change when your married, you are no longer single. If individuals wanted to live a single life, be single and don't have a family. That faze will get old after a while. It's been definitley a learning lesson either way.

I just feel a decision has to be made at this point. We haven't lived together in over a year. If she wants the single life, come and go as she pleases and stay out all hours of the night or to hang out with members of the opposite sex who's motives are not good, BE SINGLE! Then Atleast you won't have to answer to someone. Can't have your cake and eat it too. Can't be married part time