So true eyesclosed. And the other issue is that we all enter into relationships prematurely - with our own baggage, voids ...whatever.

I think we need counselling BEFORE the road to serious relationships! Getting to know each other, how ppl. 'work' behaviourally & emotionally. Our education teaches us so much 'academically' but at the end of the day, we don't know each other on the level that is sustaining. We cannot identify those choices that communicate 'nope', 'yup', 'definitely NOT' (!), 'possibly' or 'neutral - can go either way!

Schools need more psychology! Hollywood is just that - illusion.