i'm so glad you're calling your t tomorrow! i know this is scary and disconcerting to say the least. i understand about hubby...same here with t and emotional stuffs.

i think trying some kind of communication to the angry one would be good. i truly believe that she's cluing you in for a reason. she actually started communication. possibly you and t can figure out a way for the two of you to communicate for the safety adn well-being of all. she's forwarding you emails for a reason...she's opened the line of communication. i would be uncertain where to go from here if it were me, but i think communication is what she wants and is in the best interest of the entire system.

gl to you! please let us know what's going on?

be safe,

kd