Reb and East, is it possible to tell us what would help you, or what you would find comforting?

I would like to know so that I might be able to not overwhelm someone who's like this...I respect a decision and we all know what's good for ourselves, but would there be something that you would be happy for without feeling the obligation to reach out in return?
Thanks in advance and sorry for the threadjack, Hinny.