Yes I stopped all contact with her about a year ago. But that doesn't stop her from putting me down still. For the first year of our relationship I would tell him to stick up for me. I'd get so upset and it felt like he didn't care. Well now that things are getting uglier, he's been telling her off and when he does she says stuff like "fine don't come to my house again an I won't get you that new Apple Watch". She plays games like that. It's her way of control. Like when I gave him a ride from her house today and she saw me pick him up, she brought up that new car and he laughed and slammed the door. He got in my car and said "I can't believe she'd ever think I'd chose a car over you"