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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Well actually, I was thinking more along the lines of being committed to the vows you took, being committed to repairing the relationship, being committed to the man she chose, regardless of what their relationship looks like in the present. Being committed to improving what they have, being committed to building a future with him.
There's lots to be committed to if she actively chose it.
She hasn't chosen commitment, and therefore I cannot and would not show support for her actions, even if she were to post on this board.
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I was thinking about when she said, "I gave you 10 years". I think that was saying "I was committed to you for 10 years" and what she caught him doing changed that. Plus, I am wondering what kind of advice she is getting that could be "bad" advice from these friends she has been spending time with. Her friends are probably telling her it's high time she focused on herself for a change.