This is not a new thing happening in my marriage.
When I try to talk about something that is bothering me , my husband accuses me of picking a fight. He flatly refuses to talk about anything and will not give me a chance to express the way I am feeling. Even in the bedroom....I will let him know respectfully what turns me on and he replies" don't tell me what to do ". I give myself a 24 hour cooling off period, I approach him in a respectful manner and still he says that I am never happy and always complaining about something. Not true.....I brush a lot of stuff under the carpet and pick my battles. I feel very frustrated and unheard.