So why is it that I know I'm better off leaving him, but still hurt so much once it's done? My BF and father of my 7 month old son has decided that we would be better off roommates. I was the one going to leave, so why am I so hurt? I feel like I can't breathe. Like someone is ripping my heart out. Is it because he was the one to finally bring it up? Or was I sure that's what I wanted in the first place? Love Stinks!