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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Relationships begin to "stabilise" once the honey moon phase is over, and there is less of a chemistry pull towards each other and you view the person in a more realistic light for who they truly are.
Anything from 6 months to a year.
When you realised the first girl wasn't the one for you it probably gave you a bit of a fright and you're replaying this scenario in your head and way over analysing it. Be aware of when you do it, but find a distraction of sorts so you're not focusing 24/7 on transposing the feelings of what happened in your first relationship to all others.
What was your relationship like with your parents/siblings growing up?
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I've always had a great relationship with my parents. I fought with my sister a lo my growing up and I generally was always nervous to see my dad because of an unrealistic fear he'd be disappointed in me over something. I definitely think I'm applying the feeling of my past relationship to all others. This anxiousness and negative thinking begins before I could even have that opinion on anyone. It's like I've sheltered myself now and I can't allow myself to be at ease, just always on guard and always checking if I feel enough for the one I'm with currently and it can be very scary.